Really God? You Use Cancer?: Surviving Caregiving and Loss with Grit and Grace

Encouragement from Someone Who Gets ItReally God? You Use Cancer? is a raw, vulnerable, and surprisingly funny Christian memoir about navigating the darkest valleys of life.Whether you are facing a cancer diagnosis, caring for a loved one, wrestling with bereavement, or want to be a friend who understands, this book is a great reminder that we are never alone. Arleen doesn’t offer cliché Christian platitudes; instead, she shares the gritty reality of a terminal illness, the messy beauty of marriage, and the struggle to trust a good God when life feels incredibly bad.More than just a memoir, this book is an interactive survival guide. Each chapter includes practical caregiving tips, guided journaling prompts, comforting Bible verses, and honest prayers to help you process your own grief and frustration. Arleen takes out her exhaustion, fears, and anger with God, as her husband faces terminal cancer. And later, she faces a breast cancer struggle of her own. She even admits to a serious case of “Miss Cranky Pants.”Discover how you can be honest with God, and he will still meet you where you are and reveal his love every step of the way, providing peace, comfort, and hope. Read more